24 Feb 2008

未婚夫的姑姑昨天去世了
跟她只有一面之缘,我们一起吃午餐,聊了几个钟头
感觉上他很乐观,年纪有70多了,身体不怎么好
那时我第一次也是最后一次见到他了

姑姑与未婚夫的父亲很合得来
现在未来家翁在医院,他已经留在医院观察几天了
今天晚点未来家婆会把姑姑的死讯告诉未来家翁
真得很担心,不知道他是否会受得了
未婚夫回国了
这次感觉上他在这里逗留了很短的时间
下个月未就到我飞过去看他了
在那里陪他的父母一个星期
等他回来,我们就可以花两个星期的时间到处去玩了

21 Feb 2008

未来家公进了医院
很担心
未婚夫要我准备随时飞过去
跟他的关系向来不错
他很疼爱我
七十多岁的他,健康越来越差!

20 Feb 2008

明天就是元宵节了
时间过得很快

最近非常的忙
忙工作,忙未来

十一月,分局了四年
可以申请离婚了

明年一月就会拿到interim decree nisi,再等两三个月就是Decree Nisi Absolute,那我就是自由了!!
期待中!!!

9 Feb 2008

一个人过农历新年

年初二早餐,半包快熟面加菜加水饺

年初二晚餐, sakae sushi

年初三早餐, 3条香蕉加半片肉干

年初三午餐, 去翡翠吃点心,粥还有几样小菜

晚上可能去看戏

P.s. I Love You (2008)

The movie opens with a fuming Holly Kennedy (Hilary Swank) and a clueless husband, Gerry (Gerard Butler), who has no idea what wrong he has done. The lovers' spat soon escalates into a full-blown quarrel and he walks out... only to walk right back in moments later. Holly and Gerry kiss and make up and the sun shines again.

The opening scene paints a typical, modern couple with their fair share of worries about starting a family, finances and jobs. Holly and Gerry's on-screen chemistry only has that opening scene to set the whole movie aflame and while 'sizzle' is not how one would describe their relationship, it is apparent that this couple share a more mature love that far supersedes the superficial sizzling love in most other romantic comedies.

It is their love for each other - after her husband dies of cancer at the prime of his life leaving his grieving widow to cope with the loss, the change, the emptiness and having to move on all on her own - that you find yourself reaching for the tissue as if you can feel her pain. Or when she discovers that although Gerry has left, but not without first leaving Holly a series of letters, you're drawn into giving your seal of approval for Gerry's love which literally transcends time and space.

Written with love and sealed with his affable and warm sense of humour, Gerry's letters want to help his wife move on without him. The letters arrive in various creative ways and slowly but firmly prod Holly into accepting that there is new life after death - his death. Holly waits with much anticipation for each letter and although the letters seem at first to want to keep Holly living with her past memories, they soon get her moving towards doing the things she always wanted to do, as well as the one thing she wants to do. With the help of best friends Denise (Lisa Kudrow) and Sharon (Gina Gershon) who stoically stand by Holly as she grieves, together they bring on the laughs and beautifully compliments the tear-jerking moments interspersed throughout the show.

The movie explores themes of love - but not in the typical, romantic or forgettable fashion. It explores an area often left out, deemed distasteful and taboo even at its mere mention. Don't we all easily forget that as much as love is a part of life, that death is too? Young lovers will nonetheless peek into a beautiful future and mature couples can use this as a yardstick for their affection towards their significant other. Singles too can use this movie to look beyond the superficial, in their search for that significant other to whom one day they might, likewise, write such beautiful letters and sign off with "PS I Love You" too.

8 Feb 2008

心里很难受
本来孩子要过来的
但是那边又提议他们去拜年,跟他们的堂弟玩
小孩子,有的玩就忘了妈妈
我已经买了night safari得票,今晚要带他们去的
看来是浪费了
四天半的假期
一个人孤零零的过

7 Feb 2008

昨天很早就睡了
连队面的欢笑声都可以听到
真得很夸张
为了不让自己胡思乱想
吃了安眠药就去会周公
今天早上十点才起床
希望明天也可以这样赖床